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Self Test

The following short quiz can help you determine if you are in an unhealthy relationship. Simply take the quiz and click the button at the end to see your results.

Source: http://www.loveisrespect.org/

1.

The person I’m with… is very supportive of things that I do and encourages me to try new things.

1 out of 20
2.

The person I’m with… likes to listen when I have something on my mind.

2 out of 20
3.

The person I'm with… talks to me when they’re unhappy with something in the relationship.

3 out of 20
4.

The person I'm with… is willing to compromise.

4 out of 20
5.

The person I'm with… understands that we have separate interests and can spend time apart.

5 out of 20
6.

The person I'm with… is mean or rude to my friends.

6 out of 20
7.

The person I'm with… criticizes or distracts me when I’m doing things that don’t involve them.

7 out of 20
8.

The person I'm with… gets extremely jealous or possessive.

8 out of 20
9.

The person I'm with accuses me of flirting or cheating when I’m not.

9 out of 20
10.

The person I'm with… constantly checks up on me or makes me check in.

10 out of 20
11.

The person I'm with… breaks or throws things when we fight.

11 out of 20
12.

The person I'm with… threatens to destroy my things.

12 out of 20
13.

The person I'm with… tries to control what I do, who I see, what I wear, how I look or who I talk to.

13 out of 20
14.

The person I'm with… makes me feel nervous or like I’m “walking on eggshells.”

14 out of 20
15.

The person I'm with… blames me for problems, puts me down, calls me names or criticizes me.

15 out of 20
16.

The person I'm with… makes me feel like no one else would want me.

16 out of 20
17.

The person I'm with… threatens to hurt themselves, me, my friends, pets or family.

17 out of 20
18.

The person I'm with… grabs, pushes, shoves, chokes, punches, slaps, holds me down, throws things or hurts me in some way.

18 out of 20
19.

The person I'm with… yells, screams or humiliates me in front of other people.

19 out of 20
20.

The person I'm with… pressures, guilts or forces me into having sex or going farther than I want to.

20 out of 20