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Self Test

The following short quiz can help you determine if you are in an unhealthy relationship. Simply take the quiz and click the button at the end to see your results.

Source: http://www.loveisrespect.org/

1) The person I’m with... is very supportive of things that I do and encourages me to try new things.

2) The person I’m with... likes to listen when I have something on my mind.

3) The person I'm with... talks to me when they’re unhappy with something in the relationship.

4) The person I'm with... is willing to compromise.

5) The person I'm with... understands that we have separate interests and can spend time apart.

6) The person I'm with... is mean or rude to my friends.

7) The person I'm with... criticizes or distracts me when I’m doing things that don’t involve them.

8) The person I'm with... gets extremely jealous or possessive.

9) The person I'm with accuses me of flirting or cheating when I’m not.

10) The person I'm with... constantly checks up on me or makes me check in.

11) The person I'm with... breaks or throws things when we fight.

12) The person I'm with... threatens to destroy my things.

13) The person I'm with... tries to control what I do, who I see, what I wear, how I look or who I talk to.

14) The person I'm with... makes me feel nervous or like I’m “walking on eggshells.”

15) The person I'm with... blames me for problems, puts me down, calls me names or criticizes me.

16) The person I'm with... makes me feel like no one else would want me.

17) The person I'm with... threatens to hurt themselves, me, my friends, pets or family.

18) The person I'm with... grabs, pushes, shoves, chokes, punches, slaps, holds me down, throws things or hurts me in some way.

19) The person I'm with... yells, screams or humiliates me in front of other people.

20) The person I'm with... pressures, guilts or forces me into having sex or going farther than I want to.